Making Your House A Home (Part I)
June 22, 2012 in Uncategorized
Every few weeks I meet with a very sweet lady from my church. We are reading a book together, so we spend time discussing the book, and then time talking about life and prayer requests. She is not what most people would consider an older lady, but she is about fifteen years older than I am and has quite a bit more life experience, so therefore she makes a wonderful, godly mentor.
When we met together on Tuesday, she made a comment that got me thinking. I was asking her about what advice she would give someone to prepare before motherhood.
She said, “I would tell them to get their home life organized and their home making routine down to an art now, because that will make it so much easier once they have children to think about.”
That got me thinking, how many young (and even some older) women out there are in the midst of busy lives and feeling like they live in chaos?
Probably quite a few. I do not claim to be an expert in this area, but although I have only been married three years, I have spent that time learning to manage my household and it has served me well. I would like to share with you several things that I do that help keep my life simplified, and free me up to have time to serve outside my home and enjoy my friends and family (even while working 40 hours a week outside the home).
Welcome to this new series on Making Your House A Home. I hope that you will find helpful information, as well as share your own advice on how you manage your household!

I giggled a bit when I read about getting your homemaking routine down now to make it easier when the children come. I had a great schedule, a tidy house, and plenty of free time until I HAD children. Somehow, my schedule didn’t mesh with theirs and I had to reorganize my entire life…and do it again after each child! It is really all a balancing act and compromise.
I write myself notes every night. And once a week I try to plan for the next week, plan meals, errands, appointments. That habit has gotten me through chaos, because kids create chaos. Try getting all those free wills to cooperate is stressful, fun and fulfilling! I’d love to see your system.
I’ve heard that things get crazy when kids come along and the schedule is always getting changed up! I am looking forward to the chaotic experience that children will bring one of these days!
I think what my mentor was saying is that it will be an easier (but not easy) transition into motherhood if you already have some sort of system for the other life stuff.
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